Friday, September 12, 2008

Dinner and the Wii

As you know, I've had some struggles over the last several weeks, particulary last week. After many frustrating moments during the week, it was heaven to watch my kids happier than ever, playing with their cousins, and Wade and I just hanging out and having fun with Wade's brother, Jeff and his wife, Elizabeth. They just moved into a beautiful home in Fruit Heights, so while the boys cooked the hamburgers, Elizabeth and I went for a walk so she could show me their new neighborhood. She and I both love the style of older homes in neighborhoods filled with mature trees, and it was fun to be with her.
After eating dinner and yummy homemade peach pie, we took turns playing the Wii, while the kids wrestled and had a pillow fight. Here are a few pictures of the cousins being silly together, while Wade and Jeff are so "into" the game. haha You know how guys are with any kind of game system, right?
We put the kids in their pajamas, turned on Peter Pan, and let them cuddle with the cool Halloween quilt Elizabeth made, while we played the Wii upstairs....but it didn't last long. Within ten minutes, the kids were back upstairs playing around us. Typical, huh? :) It was such a fun night. Thanks guys!

Utah State Fair

Last Thursday, I took the kids to the Utah State Fair. I was excited to go on opening night since the price was only $2, rather than $8. Sweet deal, eh? I hadn't been to a fair since the Washington County Fair back in 1999, so I thought it would be fun to go support one of the girls I visit teach, who is also my friend, Lindsey Christensen. She had entered some projects into the fair to be judged, and we met up that evening to find out how she did. She took 1st place with her crocheting and 2nd place with her tatting. Good job, Linds!
Here's Emily with Lindsey's, daughter, Emmaline playing on a pole. We both call our girls "Emmy," so whenever we're together, it just gets confusing as both girls turn around and respond. :)
Black and white cows are by far my favorite because that's what you can find on my Grandpa Callister's farm. Aren't they beautiful? Since Jon is also a big fan of cows, it was nearly impossible to get him to stay put in his stroller while taking this picture. He was trying with all his might to climb out of it, so he could get a closer look at the "moo-cows."
I thought this was a great photo opportunity with Emily petting a goat. When I was growing up, I remember feeding and petting the goats on our family farm and that they were such gentle animals.

We saw other fun animals at the fair, and I think my kids would have loved riding on the ponies, but by the end of the evening, I was too plain exhausted from trying to handle the kids by myself, that we just went home. Wade had a night class and couldn't come along, and whenever he's not with us, I learn to appreciate him even more. Why do I even try to go places like this without him? He saves my sanity whenever we go anywhere as a family. It's genuniely more fun with him by my side. Does anyone else feel like your husband deserves the "Daddy of the Year" award? I do!

Saturday, September 6, 2008

To help me change my attitude

This week, I have been feeling so down and discouraged and overwhelmed, that I thought completing this tag Cynthia gave me two months ago would help me think about the happy things in my life.

8 Things I am Passionate About:

  1. The Gospel and not being afraid to share my testimony
  2. Taking time for my family and friends
  3. Taking time for me (eating right, exercising, reading)
  4. Music (singing, playing the piano, dancing)
  5. Organizing and de-junking
  6. Child development
  7. Teaching
  8. Having integrity
8 Songs I Could Listen to Over and Over Again:

  1. My favorite hymns, such as "I Stand All Amazed" & "There Is Sunshine In My Soul"
  2. "Which Part Is Mine?" -Michael McLean
  3. "What I Need" -Michael McLean
  4. "So Many Times" -T.I.M.E. (my song with Wade)
  5. "No One Else Can Smile My Smile" -Janeen Brady (It's Emily's favorite and I love it, too)
  6. "Because You Love Me" -Celine Deon
  7. "Bring On The Rain" -Jo Dee Messina
  8. "Blessed" -Martina McBride

The Past 8 Books I Have Read:

  1. Eat Smart, Walk Strong by Leslie Sansone
  2. It's Okay to Take a Nap by Debra Sansing Woods
  3. How to Handle 1,000 Things At Once by Don Aslett
  4. It's Here...Somewhere by Alice Fulton & Pauline Hatch
  5. Miracle of Forgiveness by Spencer W. Kimball
  6. I Am a Mother by Jane Clayson Johnson
  7. Book of Mormon (we're half way through!)
  8. And I'm finally going to start the Twilight Series next week (It's about time, right?)
8 Things I Say Often:

  1. "Please, get off your brother!"
  2. "Was that a good decision or a bad decision?"
  3. "After story time, we're going to take a nap, and after nap, we're going to..."
  4. "Who's my best buddy?"
  5. "Jonny, NO! Danger"
  6. "Hey sweetie"
  7. "Wade, you make me laugh!"
  8. "I Love You"
8 Things That Attract Me to a Friend:

  1. Genuinely likes me and wants to be around me
  2. Understanding
  3. Makes me laugh
  4. Thinks I'm funny
  5. Shares common interests
  6. Loves the Gospel
  7. Is also a young mom- optional ;)
  8. Sees the best in me
8 Random Things About Me:

  1. "The Office" is our new favorite show. Wade and I just can't stop laughing!
  2. I'm glad I married Wade and not___ or ___ or ___ (okay Katie, you can fill in the blanks)
  3. I have watched Anne of Green Gables more times than I can count and Wade still tries to convince me that I'm every bit as dramatic as she is. I deny it, of course!
  4. I think I secretely eat healthy so I can save up the calories for my real favorite treat, ice-cream
  5. My favorite Christmas tradition is going to Michael McLean's "The Forgotten Carols"
  6. At this very moment, I miss my mom so much it hurts. But she's on the other side of the globe, and I don't know how to contact her while she's in Israel.
  7. I'm just like my dad when it comes to reading. I love all types of motivational, instructional and self-improvement books
  8. It means the world to me when a friend calls or stops by just because
8 Things I Want to Do Before I Die:

  1. Be a student for life and never stop learning
  2. Receive my Masters Degree
  3. Own my own business whether it's to help people become more organized or teaching voice/music lessons
  4. Write a book and have it published
  5. Serve an LDS mission with my husband
  6. Travel with my husband to our favorite parts of the world
  7. Get to know each of my grandchildren and great-grandchildren
  8. Donate lots of money to the Special Olympics and other causes I strongly support
8 Things I Have Learned This Past Year:

  1. Potty training doesn't have to be impossible.
  2. Little boys are a LOT more difficult to raise than little girls
  3. My mood greatly effects the mood and feeling in our home
  4. I can choose to be happy or choose to be onery. It really is MY choice
  5. One of the hardest things in life is saying goodbye to a special friend
  6. The Lord answers my prayers again and again
  7. Blogging helps me feel connected and understood
  8. Others know what I'm going through and need me just as much as I need them

If you read this entire post, you really should get an award or something. I didn't write it to appear funny or witty or spiritual. I just needed to journal something like this for me, so I could stop my stupid pity party and start remembering the things in my life that make me happy. I don't know why Satan works so hard on me to get me feeling depressed, like I really can't do this anymore. I'm tired of miscommunicating with people I care about, especially with my little boy who is desperately trying to tell me something, but I can't understand him, so then he throws a tantrum, and it makes me want to flail my arms and curl up and cry just like he does. And if I try to hide away for some alone time, my two very independent children suddenly become so dependent on me and need me that second. It's just so hard, and I need to get those feelings out, but I know I shouldn't complain because I'm lucky to have two beautiful and healthy children, who love me more than anything in this world. And as challenging as motherhood can be, it's nice to know I'm needed.

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Here's to the Olympics...Cheers!

Although we are enjoying our sleep now that the Olympics are over, we wanted to pay a tribute to the athletes that inspire us by sharing with you some of the athletes that make us laugh...Enjoy!

Friday, August 22, 2008

My sister, the teacher

I just got back from spending time with my little sister, Ruthanne, in her new classroom. I am so proud of this girl that I could burst! She will be teaching 2nd grade starting on Monday, and although she is nervous, she has no need to be. Her classroom looks amazing; just so warm and welcoming. She has done a fantastic job preparing everything for her students. They are really lucky to have her as their teacher!
Just for fun, I thought I would share this photo of us on Ruthanne's first day of 2nd grade and my first day of 5th grade. My friend who lived next door, Emily Jones, is in the green. Of course we are all sporting the famous rolled socks, because it was "the look" back then. :)
This was the first day of school the year before. We took a summer sewing class and made these outfits and the bags ourselves. I think they're pretty rad. Don't laugh too hard at my puffy bangs or my gigantic hair scunchie!

I love you, sis! You're going to do great next week!

Thursday, August 21, 2008

Deceptively Delicious

It's a constant challenge for me to encourage my kids to eat healthy. They can be picky little eaters sometimes, because let's be honest, they're kids! However, I am fortunate that they are still so young because they haven't become accustomed to certain tastes, like regular Peanut Butter, so they will happily eat Natural Peanut Butter, which has half the sugar and sodium, but more protein than regular. And as long as I AM EATING the healthful food as well, for the most part, they join me. The tricky thing is to make sure I am eating enough of the good stuff so that they can follow my example. Here's where Deceptively Delicious comes into play. Jerry Seinfield's wife, Jessica, has put together this awesome cookbook where you add pureed fruits and vegetables to foods your family already likes. Our family's favorite recipe is the Banana Bread with pureed cauliflower. Sometimes I add butternut squash instead. Yum! And you can't even taste the vegetable. The best thing about it is that it simply gets you thinking, so that you can start adding pureed fruits and veggies to some of your favorite recipes. You don't even need to tell your husband and kids. Just see if they taste a difference. I took my sister's Spaghetti Pie recipe and tweaked it. So now I use whole wheat spaghetti noodles, pureed squash added to ground turkey and pasta sauce (the red pasta sauce covers up the orange color of the squash, so it appears normal). It's so tasty! I'll take a quick picture and share the recipe soon. Even though there's squash in the main meal, I still serve salad and cooked carrots on the side, so I make sure we get enough of what we need. But if Emily or Jon barely touch their carrots, I can feel confident knowing they got SOME vegetable from the meal.

Several mornings a week, I prepare what I like to call "Fruit Smoothie Treats" for breakfast. Because the word "treats" is in the name, my kids are anxious to have one. I have always loved the taste of Fruit Smoothies, but I would often be hungry again two hours later, so I started adding protein mix (EAS brand from Costco) to the Smoothie, to keep me feeling satisfied all morning long. So here's my recipe...
Fruit Smoothie Treat
2 cups fresh or frozen fruit of any kind
1 cup spinach and/or carrot
1/2 cup milk
3 scoops vanilla protein mix
1/8 cup splenda or 1/4 cup sugar
10-15 ice cubes
If you are using frozen fruit, it helps to thaw it a little first. Blend the fruit, spinach/carrot, and milk together in a blender. Add protein mix and the sweetener. Blend well. Finally, add the ice cubes and blend until smooth. Makes 5-6 cups. Enjoy!
Was that easy or what?

Friday, August 15, 2008

Milestones and Happy Days

We have hit some major milestones in our family, and we are very excited to share the news! Jonathan is walking! Our sixteen-month old is one stubborn little guy. Although he learned to cruise at 8 months and took his first steps on his birthday, he has been so content to just crawl for the longest time. He was pretty steady on his feet, and we knew he COULD walk, he was just choosing not to because he was such a speedy crawler. It was driving us crazy, and we think he knew it, too! We're thrilled that Jon is finally walking. We love you, buddy!
The next big milestone is that Emily is potty-trained. Wahoo! I discovered the magic secret to potty-training success...are you ready for this...wait till they're ready! Genius, I know, but I learned this the hard way. We tried potty-training her when she was about 27 months and guess what? It was a flop! Her desire was there, but her little body was just not ready. Some kids are ready that early, but every kid is different. The first time around, it was the hardest week of my life. Neither of us were happy because she was having so many accidents and didn't understand her body and when she needed to go.

This week has been completely different, now that she's 34 months. She was basically trained in just a few hours, and it was a beautiful thing! I have been so proud of her. She woke up from her nap the first day, took off her dry night-time panties (pull-ups), used the potty that I had left in her room, put on new panties, and then knocked on her door to let me know she was awake and ready to play now. I couldn't believe what a big girl she was doing it all by herself! Way to go Ems!
Even though Emily has been doing awesome with potty-training, we have not left the house all week just in case, besides going outside to play with side-walk chalk and blow bubbles. So you can imagine, I was going crazy and needed a break! Wade suggested I have a GIRLS NIGHT OUT, and he would do the dishes and put the kids to bed. What a sweet husband! So I called Traci, and she was totally up for it. Yea!

We went to see Mama Mia, and it was fabulous! We both LOVED it! Seriously, it was such a good movie, set on a beautiful island with a star cast, a cute story, and awesome music. I could not stop smiling! The popcorn and chocolate milkshake we enjoyed weren't too shabby either. :) Thanks Traci, I really needed a girls night out!

Finally, I just wanted to say that I have rediscovered the Book of Mormon and it makes me so happy! I can tell a big difference in my mood on the days I read as opposed to when I miss my reading. It's amazing. Although I love my church calling and wouldn't trade it for anything, because I serve in the primary, I don't have the opportunity to attend Relief Society or Sunday School. Sometimes I feel like I'm missing out on the spiritual development that I need.

So Wade and I made a goal to read the Book of Mormon this year along with the Sunday School lessons. It's been so rewarding for our family when we read. I say "when" because we aren't perfect, but we're trying our best. There's a quiet peace in our home that comes when we kneel together in prayer and when we read a chapter in the Book of Mormon or even a few verses. I'm so grateful for the Gospel. I can't imagine where I'd be if I didn't know my Savior loves me. But I do know, and that knowledge brings me great joy and peace.